In the vast majority of divorces, a family law attorney should be involved to represent the legal interests of both parties. Unfortunately, many people assume that an amicable breakup will result in an amicable divorce, which often is not the case.
The involvement of a family lawyer through the process of moving from a married couple to co-parents is not always easy. Sometimes issues in raising the children between two households become obstacles if one or both parents are not willing to compromise and work together.
Even in the situation where both parents are in agreement about raising the children, having a family law attorney representing your best interests is important. This is particularly important in financial issues and in determining what is community property and what may be separate property that is excluded from the divorce.
Helps to Reduce Conflict
While many people assume that hiring a family law attorney will escalate the conflict, it typically helps to reduce the problems and allows the attorneys, who are not emotionally invested in the dispute, to create a workable solution for both people.
Additionally, through mediation, the couple can work with each other and their legal representatives to develop a divorce settlement that works for both of them as well as the children. With this type of agreement, there is less likelihood of one parent trying to sabotage the agreement as both feel they are in a win-win arrangement.
Ensures Equitable Distribution of Property
Doing a divorce pro se, or on your own, may limit your ability to obtain what is legally fair during the divorce. Issues such as retirement plans, investments or even potentially hidden assets by one party to the divorce can be an issue if an attorney is not involved.
By hiring a family law attorney, you will avoid these issues, and also have an option to consider your choices through the divorce. With tax issues and potential long and short term financial issues discussed with the attorney you can make choices that are going to be more beneficial for you, and your children, both now as well as in the future.
In the event that a mediated divorce is not possible, a family law attorney will be prepared to move forward with your divorce through litigation. Having an attorney represent you in the court system is critical as self-representation leaves anyone open to mistakes that can be costly.
Hiring a family law attorney at Gordon & Perlut, LLC will provide quality legal representation through mediation or litigation.
